What to Do After a Job Rejection

John Krautzel
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Many people deal with job search rejection at some point during a career. The trick remains to turn a negative experience into a positive one by taking several actions shortly after you receive the bad news. Even if you aced the interview process in your mind, there still may be some details for you to consider before moving on to the next opportunity.

If you don't find ways to improve after a rejection, then the same pattern of behavior may happen over and over again until you learn how to finally ace the interview process and land your dream job. The reason for taking action remains the fact that you get agonizingly close to the goal after multiple interviews only to be told "thanks, but no thanks." Just as you would after winning a silver medal, try to figure out what you could do differently to win the top prize.

Allow Yourself to Feel

Start by allowing yourself to feel angry, upset and disappointed about the job rejection. Then, find an activity to release the negative emotions and move on to something else.

Express Gratitude

Call one of the interviewers and tell that person "thank you" for the time, effort and consideration shown towards you. The very fact that you got to the interview in the first place means the interviewers respected your work ethic, skills and experience. Try not to take the rejection personally, as there could have been many other factors that led to another candidate getting the job. Your network can still turn up great leads, so try not to burn any bridges by showing anger towards the interviewers.

Assess Your Plan

Honest assessments of your interview skills don't always present themselves. However, you can control how you work your plan moving forward. Talk to a career coach or a recruiter to find out how you can improve. Don't be afraid to ask for help from colleagues, mentors, friends and associates.

Find a Better Path

A rejection may simply alter your career path a little. Instead of dwelling on what you could have gotten, move forward to something better. You might have to take a lesser position at another company, but you may see a faster job promotion within a dynamic team at the next company.

Change the Search

Narrow or broaden your search to include other avenues of employment. Do you feel the rejections could be due to a disconnect between your skills and goals? Perhaps you need to find a different type of position than the one you have been trying to get for so long.

Look at Statistics

Find better opportunities when you look at what careers and industries have good job outlooks. Some sectors of the economy may present better chances for employment than others, so be wary of companies that may need a lot of quality hires.

Work Your Personal Brand

Take to social media, and work your personal brand. Write blogs, connect on LinkedIn and get your name out there for people to see.

Try not to let rejection get to you. Yes, it remains hard to find your dream job in a competitive labor market. However, the correct job presents itself eventually if you open yourself to the possibilities.


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  • Jhude MAGALLANES
    Jhude MAGALLANES

    @Nancy, thank you so much for your advise. You are right in saying all those things. I will re-evaluate my CV and myself, and yes, will take a leap of faith. Very enlightening and your message made my day brighter! Once again, thank you!

  • Nancy Anderson
    Nancy Anderson

    @Jhude and Pamela so sorry for the rejections. It certainly is tough when those letters/emails come. We have all been there. @Richard, after 400 rejections in two years, something has got to change. Maybe your resume isn't where it needs to be. Maybe you are applying for jobs for which you are not qualified? Unfortunately age does play a part but we hear all the time from more senior job seekers that they found the perfect job so we know it's possible. Maybe you need to take some career assessments tests and see what kind of results you get. You could be looking in the wrong direction. The work world has changed so much even in just the last few years. Try going in a different direction - something totally out of the norm for you and see where it takes you. For instance seven years ago I worked as a business analyst - all technical work and today I work as a Community Editor - all marketing. I took a leap of faith and went out of my comfort zone. It paid off and it will for you, too. Best of luck!

  • Richard J.
    Richard J.

    I am changing up how I search now after two solid years of rejections. It gets very hard to keep putting myself out there. Two years of rejections is a long time. My tendency is to say enough already and then do nothing until I can finally get my energy to try again. After never being without a job before after working 40 straight years I have gone through over 400 rejections in 2 years. At 61, it's very hard to keep bouncing back.

  • Marina N.
    Marina N.

    Actually I am looking for a new job. So I will have to check this out in case i will be rejected

  • Jhude MAGALLANES
    Jhude MAGALLANES

    Thank you for this post. I just had a rejection yesterday and I feel so down ....

  • Pamela Williams
    Pamela Williams

    I found this quite interesting since I received two rejecdtion notices today. It does end my day on somewhat of a bright note. I will keep the faith!!

  • Debra Ahmed
    Debra Ahmed

    helpful advice

  • Evangeline P.
    Evangeline P.

    Thanks! Thoughts remain positive ..,, advice helps.

  • John Crist
    John Crist

    Thanks, I needed that

  • John M.
    John M.

    to be honest; I prefer the rejection. But, I'm also a fan of Diogenes. The man allegedly begged statues for food and money. The basic premise to that is that you should get used to no response, and often times a cold one. But, I'll be honest just found this in passing, testing out beyond's natural "smart" filters for "active" peoples, and how well it can actually navigate me to something tangible.

  • Michelle Ranelle-Smedsrud
    Michelle Ranelle-Smedsrud

    Very good advice.

  • Marlene Ward
    Marlene Ward

    true

  • yolanda simpson
    yolanda simpson

    When one door close another one will open... Keep da faith going<<<<<

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